There’s something about the river….
The way it moves, carving through rock and time, shaping the land it touches. It flows because it must, and yet, it is never alone. It is fed by streams, joined by tributaries, and it runs toward something greater than itself.
The life of a worship leader or pastor is no different. It is a current, carrying the weight of leadership, the call to shepherd, the responsibility to create space for people to encounter the presence of God. And yet, in the midst of pouring out, we can so easily find ourselves running dry. Leadership can feel like an isolated canyon—winding, overwhelming, and endless.
But here’s the truth: we were never meant to do this alone.
The Illusion of Self-Sufficiency
There is a lie that has woven itself into the fabric of ministry: the idea that we have to be the strong ones, the ones who never waver, never question, never need. That if we lead well, we shouldn’t struggle. That if we are called, we shouldn’t grow weary.
But that’s not the way of Jesus.
Even He, the Son of God, surrounded Himself with friends, with brothers, with a community who walked with Him, ate with Him, prayed with Him. In His most agonizing moment, He longed for their nearness in Gethsemane. If He needed people, how much more do we?
The Table as a Lifeline
Ministry is meant to be lived in the context of community, in the gathering of hearts around a table where honesty, belonging, and grace reign. It is in these spaces—where stories are shared, burdens are lifted, and encouragement is spoken—that leaders are sustained.
At the table, we find:
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Honesty: A place where we don’t have to pretend, where we can admit the struggle without fear of judgment.
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Belonging: A reminder that we are not just shepherds; we are also sheep in need of care.
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Grace: A tangible experience of the love of God through the voices of those who see us, know us, and remind us of who we are.
A Call to Step Into the River
The river moves because it is not alone. It is fed by the rain, strengthened by the streams, and guided by the banks that keep it flowing toward the sea. We are no different.
To sustain this calling—to lead well, to endure, to remain faithful—we must refuse to walk alone. We must gather, seek out community, and sit at the table with those who will hold us up when the waters rise.
If you are weary, find your people. If you are dry, seek out the stream. If you are alone, take a seat at the table. The river flows best when it is connected. And so do we.
TABLE TALK:
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Where do you find the greatest challenge in staying connected to community as a worship leader or pastor?
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How has authentic connection with others helped sustain you in ministry?
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What would it look like for you to intentionally seek out community this season?
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